My Ex Boyfriend just gave me flowers?

I left him in Feb.(he was unfaithful) I've ignored his calls and made no attempt to reconcile. (I don't want him back) He just walked in today and gave me flowers saying "Special Delivery - don't get upset ok. They are for you" I said "This is not good. I can't do this" (I'm at work)


Then he left straight away with a big smile on his face.





Back on valentines day, before we split, he couldn't give me anything, so I told him to buy me flowers for my birthday. My birthday was last month, so is he trying to reconcile, stay friends, or just finalise a past promise wanting to be forgiven?





I'm wondering if I should call him and ask him why he gave me flowers, or if I should just do nothing? I don't want the flowers, and ideally would like him to take them back. I don't want to invite conversation either. I don't want him in my life at all.





Ideas please?

My Ex Boyfriend just gave me flowers?
if you dont want him in your life, then ignore him. you said it yourself. it sounds like you have a very clear head about this. if you talk to him you may make him think your still interested. so leave him be. if he doesnt get the hint, he is an idiot. the most you should say to him is you dont want anything from him ever again and would prefer it if he stayed out of your life.





if it makes you feel any better, ex's in general seem weird. my ex has told me countless times while in relationships with women who are not me that i am hot, tells me he misses certain parts of our relationship, still pays for my food if we go out for coffee, etc. its annoying a little but im one of those people who CAN NOT have people hate me so it would hurt me so much more to kick him out of my life than to keep him in it.
Reply:Tell him to leave you alone that you don't want anything to do with him sometimes. You have to be mean sometimes to get the message across to someone. You know?
Reply:"(he was unfaithful)"


End of story. You deserve better.





Give the flowers away, pitch them, put them down the disposal, whatever! You don't owe him anything. I wouldn't even call.
Reply:do nothing. thats what men do they realise you dont need them anymore and that you are happy and it makes them want you back. remember what he did to you and how much he hurt you.
Reply:Even though he probably knows you're not interested in him anymore, he's most liekly trying to get you to like him again. Don't be mean and throw the flowers away-- next time when you see him, tell him that you're thankful for the flowers but your relationship wouldn't work out anymore and you're sorry but could you guys just be friends? not anything mean, because how would you like it if you still liked somebody and then when you tried to do good for them, they had a bad reaction? Call him and tell him this. it usually works because the guy will think that you're thankful for the flowers but you don't like it if he interferes too much into your life anymore and then after that, he'll most likely leave you alone =]
Reply:throw them away and be glad you are rid of him....





however, I detect an undercurrent of unrequited love so that may be difficult for you.....
Reply:tell him is over that he was unfaithful to you that you not want to see him ever again and through away the flowers!!!!!
Reply:Girl please don't fall into the same mistakes that we do, which is to take them back. They'll never learn, or feel or pain when we find out things. Do what your heart tells you but also remember how you felt when you found out he was cheating and ask yourself if you're ready to put up with **** again.
Reply:Wow that's hard, because it sounds to me like he has realized he lost the best thing in his life YOU... I would call him and tell him were you stand and if you feel comfortable being friends with him then go girl. It's better for you to be the bigger person and forgive him. I'm not saying to get back with him, but trust it will make you feel stronger inside and out... Good luck!!! I hope this helps a little...=)





P.S If you call him don't give him control over the conversation. You tell him how it is...
Reply:If he is a habitual cheater don't give another chance because he will just cheat on you again. Us guys have sexual urges towards other women but you can't act on them if your with someone.


But if you don't want in your life at all don't give him mixed message tell him no I don't want to be with you or see you.
Reply:he probablly either wants to get back with you (just ignore him), or still wants to be friends, or at least doesn't want you to hate him... I think you should politely say thank you next time you see him, but tell him it's over. Hope this helps. =)
Reply:don't call him and you can give the flowers to a co worker


or drop them off at your local hospital or nursing home.
Reply:throw the flowers away and don't talk to him any more.
Reply:If you don't want the flowers give them to a local hospital or nursing home and do not contact him. If he intended to upset you or just to get in your good books do not give him the pleasure of getting any thing. If he was doing the dirty on you, you are better off without him and certainly no need to sooth his feelings.





Just Ignore him.