what does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with "love" and then his name? there is soooooooooooooooooo much more to the story than this. short version.....we just had a baby together, his mother (i think, but am pretty positive) wants him all to herself b/c he pays her bills, he has not seen the baby in over a month, he's admitted to being a momma's boy, ask me to marry him now has changed his mind and a lot of other things. anyways...why in the world would he send me flowers on my birthday? the arrangement even came with a teddy bear and hershey kisses!!! i'm so confused. i love him and care about him deeply, but have just gotten used to the idea of not being with him. i filed for child support too. i just know that if we were ever to get back together he would have to move out of his mother's house (it's actually his house). he has acted like he does not care, but sending me flowers? and remembering my birthday? i need some advice.
What does it mean if my ex-boyfriend send me flowers on my birthday and signs the card with?
Long story short: "He still cares for you"
Reply:It sounds like he still loves you and cares about you. I mean you were a couple and had a baby together.
If he says anything about you two ever getting back together I'd say I would only consider it if your mother was out of your house. Which I don't think would happen anyway!
Just get on with your life without him. He sounds like he doesn't know what he wants and can't make up his mind. You need stability with a baby.
Reply:This guy obviessly loves you too and wants to see his baby. I'm sorry but get that ***** of a mother out of your way, that guy should be with you. Your going to have to tell his mother politely even though she's a *****, that you would really like to see him again and it's important to her grandchild that he/she has a father around, make it all for the baby because it's true and she probably doesn't care about you.
Reply:Hes trying to slide nicely back in to your life. He caes about you to rem. your birthday. H ehasnt seen his baby, do you really want a guy like that? Its a nice way to start a conversation, thinking youll call and thank him and hell be the good guy in your eyes for awhile.
Reply:Can you use some capitals, and maybe some paragraphs? That is such a mess to try and read.
Reply:im sure if he sends u flowers andstuff he still cares for u and the baby just try talkin to him
Reply:It means he was out drinking and got stupid . Then he wrote some crap that he never meant and now you are dazzled . The kids will grow up fatherless while he serves time behind bars . Meanwhile , you will seek pleasure at night clubs by over indulging in adult beverage consumption and become a free lance woman of the evening .
Reply:most flower shops u can order flowers and have them delivered on a certain date like i can order flowers tonight and have them delivered next yr. so he might have done that or hes tring to suck up to u
Reply:That's nice
Reply:maybe he is just tryna be nice and didnt really mean anything by love (insert person's name here). Every1 puts love in the card dont over react
Reply:Sounds like he loves you but loves his mother more or perhaps he's just not ready for responsibilities
Reply:He hasn't seen his child in over a month, but took time out of his day to send you a birthday present?
I say send them back to him, and tell him that if he wants to "send" you something.... diapers and milk would be a great start.
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