Guys - how do you feel if someone sends you flowers on your birthday?

I've been arguing with my mom on this one for a long time now, but I have an aunt that moved away. When she was closer she would usually bake a special cake on my birthday or my sisters. But since she moved away she sends flowers as well as a card and a gift; the flowers usually arrive by a florist on the day. The first time this happened I felt really embarrassed about it and didn't like it. My mom thought it was nice and send it is a custom and not a big deal. Then it happened again last year and some guy friends saw them - none of them have ever had flowers for their birthday before although one had a cousin that had - we were able to laugh it off to a nutty aunt, but it was still awkward. Now with my b'day coming up again I already know that flowers will be coming this year. I've said to my mom that I wish she'd say to not bother or use the money for something else or save it, but my mom's mad at me and told me to thank her when they come





I can't be the only guy who feels this way

Guys - how do you feel if someone sends you flowers on your birthday?
I understand it's a little unusual for men, but I doubt anyone will think less of you at all truly for merely recieving flowers from a family member. I am surprised your mother doesn't understand how you're feeling though, I've recieved embarressing gifts before but my parents were always understanding and they felt less guilt than me when disposing of them. Your birthday is supposed to be an enjoyable time for you, and the last thing she should be worrying about is etiquette on your behalf. I think it would be quite easy for her to discretely hint your aunt to not send them, she might not succeed, but I'm surprised she will not even attempt to remedy the situation. But as i said, don't worry about it, it's likely no one will even see them, make sure your mates aren't around when they're getting delievered if you can and put them in a room where your friends won't go when they come round? I'm sure may guys your age feel the same way, but when you get older I think most realise that they're just a nice gesture. Hope you have a good birthday!
Reply:My sister always sends me flowers for my birthday. I thought it was peculiar at first. I was living in a dorm and got a lot of comments, for sure. But now I understand it as a representation of her love and I even look forward to getting them. Be happy that someone cares enough to send you flowers. And maybe send HER flowers on HER birthday. I bet she'd love it.
Reply:It's not my thing. Personally I think buying dead plants is a waste of time. If they got me something that was still in roots then maybe. I will buy flowers for a girl if I know that she likes it. I think the whole idea is to make the other person happy on their birthday, not yourself.





I wouldn't complain about your aunt though. She cares for you. That's a good thing.
Reply:well my brother got flowers from his gir freind and he said well atleast she thouht of me and i gave my boyfreind flowers and her sister said he waters them every day so dont worry it is sooo normal i mean you should like them its alright and also u can pass it on to a girl u like or ur girlfreind and girls love it when a guy brings them flowers!





























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Reply:I think they are a waste of money, but it seems that your Mom likes to have your flowers around the house. When you get your own place, you can tell your aunt you'd rather have socks or underwear. LOL
Reply:I do think it's a little odd, but it's nothing compared to being a total ingrate. Grow up.
Reply:No, I'd be embarrassed to get flowers as a gift too. Maybe talk to your aunt about it.
Reply:Your an immature little thing aren't you? They're just flowers. Get over it.
Reply:I'd rather get something useful. Flowers just die in a few days.
Reply:You are not the only guy. I have felt like this before. the truth is..... I LOVE FLOWERS!
Reply:Give them to your mom.
Reply:Excited, because now I have a 'get out of jail free' card that I didn't have to buy with my own money!
Reply:LOL... run... run from the flowers before they turn you into a girl!!! Ha ha.... Seriously, I agree with gadgitgirlmbl they're just flowers which is a sign of love and feelings for you. It's a nice thing that your aunt is showing you in a way that she can while being away from you. Don't be so nasty about it. If you're that embarrassed then hide them like Double X said from your guy friends, but say thanks to your aunt and show her some respect too.