Should I send my Ex-fiance a Birthday gift or flowers?

My fiance, whom I dated for more than 4 years broke up with me in June, 5 days before our wedding, I thought we had an AMAZING RELATIONSHIP and would do anything for her. Needless to say I was completely and utterly devastated. She told me she needs to find herself and her individuality, and that she was depressed. I miss her more than words and it is now January, and it is her birthday next week. Should I send a gift, I don't know if it's the right thing to do, I did go out with her for 4 years. What should I do?

Should I send my Ex-fiance a Birthday gift or flowers?
I completey disagree with all these folks. Sounds like these chicks want you to be a doormat.





Absolutely send flowers... And a gift in an oversized box! Make an incredably big scene of it. Get the ballons too. An oversized card with very lovely writting. Have it delivered to someplace where there will be a lot of "her" people. The more people, the better! And, you do not have to spend a lot of money either.





Now here is the important part. Do not take her calls nor talk to her. Do not respond to her text messages. NOTHING!





You are too busy. Make a date and be out on it. Even if your date is with a firehydrant. It is none of her business who you are with.





If she sees you, hurry past her, smile and tell her you are glad she got them... "But, I am just running so late right now. I will talk to you later..." But do not.





The more you do not want her, the more she will want you.





You are the guy on the move, upwardly mobile... going places (and here is the important part) without her!





Let me know how it works out.





Good luck.
Reply:PLEASE... Don't waste another penny or another moment on her. She has made her choice. I know it is hard. I know you are going to think of her all the time for a while. But everything you do for her will just make things that much harder for you. Don't drown yourself in wishful thinking. Let go, my friend.


Peace be with you...
Reply:send her flowers and a cute little card. what's the harm? you'll probably get a smile out of her at least ;)
Reply:The Wrong Answer Again sounds genious to me!
Reply:Do you still keep in touch with her? If she has severed all contact with you, I would probably recommend NOT sending her anything. If you two are still cordial and keep in touch every now and again, you could mail her a card that simply says "I hope you have a great birthday!" If you send her flowers or a gift, it might send her a message that you're crowding her again and the last thing you want to do it make it seem like you want to smother her. Good luck!
Reply:No gifts. Let go.