My mother's birthday would be later this month and I would like to do something in her memory besides putting flowers on the crypt. What are some suggestions?
What is a good way to observe the birthday of your mother who has passed away?
invite your family over and have a party in her memory. tell each person that they should tell a story about your mother of happy times. just think of something that would make your mom happy. i send my blessing to you and your family.
Reply:go have dinner at her favorite resturant
Reply:Yes.
Reply:treat it as though she were alive. if your normal plans would be to go to dinner as a family, then do that. if the plans are normally to have a party, then start making invitations. the idea is to honor her, if she wouldnt spend her birthday in mourining at a cemetery then dont. honor her and celebrate her memory
Reply:Make a contribution to a charity in her name. This way in honor of her memory good work will be done to help others. And you may want to invite a family member or a few for a little get together.Take out scrapbooks of old family pictures and share all the good times and people that were part of her life. I'm sure she was a wonderful person.
Reply:Have a party...if that is what you did when she was alive. Particularly if you can still feel her around you; she may not be able to join in like the rest of the physical people, but it will give her joy anyway.
You'll know if you're on the right track if you start feeling patches of goosebumps on yourself...that's to be taken as a "postive/yes" answer...if you should go that route; to know if mom shows up...more than likely she'll be 'patting' you on the head and such -- more goosebumps or a tickling sensation with a subtle 'thank you' feeling.
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