Today is my ex wife's birthday and she is in jail...Should I send her flowers from the kids?

I would consider what the circumstances are and your own parental judgement on that one . It''s unlikely she would be allowed to keep the flowers if she were to get them . If they choose to send something perhaps a phonecard may be in order .

Today is my ex wife's birthday and she is in jail...Should I send her flowers from the kids?
they won't allow flowers in jail. Send a card.
Reply:yes, just put yourself in her situation and your kids don't send you anything. what would you feel. so just send it straight away. she's still your kids' mother
Reply:this will be really nice ,and it may raise her spirits.


and also as others say,it will be more better if the children sent her something else,like a handmade card.
Reply:that would be nice. she would really love that.
Reply:No , let the kids send her home made cards . The flowers would make her feel like they are from you and you still have feelings (do you?) Homemade cards are the best from kids , I'm a Mom of three grown children and I have every card they ever gave me and made me ..
Reply:ok, she is in jail...


there are a lot of things she can't get from the outside


find out what is ok for her to have


candy, toiletries, small amt of money


they may not allow flowers


make sure you send with it a nice card from the kids-


love you mommy, all that


it would be a nice memento for her she could keep there
Reply:Go with the card not the flowers. Also something that she'd be allowed to keep, something practical she could use.





Thoughtful of you....
Reply:That would be sweet and your kids would love you for it.
Reply:What a thoughtful man. Yes, put your feelings aside in favour of your children's and their Mother's. Great Karma
Reply:Yup, go with the cards.





Your not allowed to send anything into prisons, everything has to be bought inside so that nothing gets in that shouldn't.
Reply:cards are cool, and pictures of the kids. Thats nice that your taking the time to do that. It will make the happy.
Reply:that would be nice, it would make her feel better