My husbands birthday is coming in a couple of says and i was wondering is it ok?

to send him flowers and a box of chocolates to work on his birthday is that just for women.please help.

My husbands birthday is coming in a couple of says and i was wondering is it ok?
I don't know about at work. It depends on how many people at work will see it and if they'll ridicule him.





I had a former girlfriend send roses to my home, and it was one of the nicest gestures I've ever received.
Reply:I want to commend you on the idea and the effort. Just the fact that you are thinking of doing something special is special.





I like the advice that others have suggested, plan something special for when he gets home.





For the office, why not send him to work with a card. Write some sweet things in it (don't rely on Hallmark to express your feelings). Tell him to open it at work. It will brighten his day. If he feels open about it, he will display it. If not, he will keep it in his desk and look at it throughout the day. Either way, it will have the same desired effect.
Reply:I would say no. Even though today, many people are OK with different things. But why would you subject your husband to such ridicule at his office or place of work. Send him a nice picture of yourself for his desk, or some tickets to his favorite team.
Reply:Armani G, I would prefer a romantic dinner for two, followed by exercise...if you know what I mean.
Reply:Man it up just a bit to be safe. Trade the flowers out for a delievred lunch and maybe gourmet jelly beans in lieu of chocolate. Just a suggestion though, send what you think is right (He better send you some good stuff like that :D)
Reply:I got flowers at work one time....


all the ladies were envious...but I got ribbed for it for months...





I would vote "no" on flowers......





it is a nice gesture.... depends on if he can take the ribbing....
Reply:I think it depends on his work but if it is an office place/environment and he wont get harassed too much because he works in a mature office then yes. I think a nice arrangement, not roses, is cool, I have done it and if he likes chocolates that is the thing to do. I think guys like to be surprised with niceties too. Have fun.....S
Reply:tickets to a game
Reply:honestly guys dont really care about that kinda stuff. just be home when he gets there wearing a long coat with nothing under it. then open it slightly to show what is NOT there. HE will appreciate that more and you can both enjoy his present.
Reply:I would opt for a balloon maybe rather than chocolates and flowers.





Tho I would be ecstatic with any gift from my sugarlicious.
Reply:you could send him flowers and choclates if you want to but that would be like him buying you a lawn mower for your birthday.


If you want to send him something, there are some places that will do a basket of mens stuff like boutique beers and wine and stuff like that. You can still send him something, but he will probably like it more.
Reply:Just send him some balloons at work and be waiting naked when he gets home. Most men don't care for flowers and chocolates. They just want food and sex :)
Reply:I don't think guys really like that kind of display of affection. He would appreciate a card letting him know what the night has in store for him...lol