What is a good birthday gift for my wife besides jewerly and flowers which has been done before ?

I have always felt the doing something for someone is much better then giving them something. It's easy to go to a store and fork out money for something that someone may never use.





Take her to the spot where you got engaged, have a fancy picnic, clean the house from top to bottom, take the kids for the day, sent her up for a day at a spa, fix everything on your "to do list". Sure get her something, but it doesn't have to be expensive.





If you do something romantic, it will be a cherished memory, and you can't buy that in a store.

What is a good birthday gift for my wife besides jewerly and flowers which has been done before ?
A new outfit. Pick out what you think she would look good in. It feels so good to me when hubby does this. Very personal.
Reply:(big city) Rent a limo and and taker her to the Opera! -maybe include some close friends.





(country) Get a sitter. Set up a table on the front/back porch put some candles out, nice dinner %26amp; wine. Red and white check linen. Yellow daisys or her favorite colors and flowers. Let her know that you know her. Enjoy the nature.
Reply:a cruise !
Reply:The answer to this question really depends on several things. First thing is your age. Are you young lovers? Been married for a while? Second thing is your love life. Do you and your wife have a good love life or not? Are you both able to enjoy each other sexually?


Sure, you can take her out to dinner, a picnic, movie, dancing, whatever. But they way you handle yourselves when you are having sex tells your spouse so much about you and the way you feel about them. You know what gets your wife in the mood for sex. Create a situation made specifically for that. If she likes scented candles, place them all over the house. If she likes roses, buy her a dozen, and spread the petals of another dozen all over the bed or in a warm bath. If she likes massages, get some massage oil (with her favorite scent) and after her bath give her a massage. Not just her shoulders, but from head to toe, even rubbing her hands and fingers. Just get her to relax like she has never done before. While you are giving the massage, kiss her every once in a while. You dont have to kiss her on the mouth. You can kiss her in the center of her back, along the spine. Most women find this as an erogenous zone. I bet she will shiver a little when you do this. I think you get the point, and you can use your imagination from here.





If you and your wife dont have a good sexual relationship, maybe you should just get her something she wants. I am sure that she has dropped a hint or two as the day gets closer.
Reply:hmm....


you should get her either a puppy or a kitten


.........................if shes alergic.................................


take her on a romantic date then have chanpagne and get a hotel room and stay there the nightt!!
Reply:the first thing is you have to know your wife that helps.


my wife like thing that i have to think about.. she hate stuff that i can just go in and buy.


she want my time i love to work in wood and have made her many things that she loves. i have planned a weekend away with spa time for both of us. NO phones or work. just us. she love camping and have done this as well.. she love flower but hates bought ones.. so i make her a flower garden that i take care of and take in flowers to her that she put all over the house. she hate gardening. LOL.. i made her jewelry by using a rock drum to do my rocks and then picking out what i knew she wanted.


she love pictures of family and Friends and pets. so one year i had every one take pictures of each other and i took pictures of places we love to go to and our pets. and i put them in a photo album for her we look at it often. i know that there are a lot of woman that want jewelry and flowers and just stuff.. i lucky i have a wife that want me and MY TIME.
Reply:Some very nice expensive perfume....why with wives does everythign have to be expensive? Because we're worth it :o) Otherwise book a very nice and expensive (of course) hotel for the night and make itreally romantic.
Reply:take her away for a weekend...go see a concert, go to the movies....get her out of the house for heavens sake! And while are out, treat her like a princess...just romance her to death!!!
Reply:Give her some chocolate covered strawberries and you!
Reply:How about a local Spa gift certificate? Jewelry and flowers are always welcome, though. A small box of very good chocolates. If you gave a spa or clothing store or any kind of gift certificate, you could put it in with the chocolate, and have both tangible and intangible gifts. How about a pair of tickets to a play or concert?
Reply:shopping spree..........oh, wait, that would be my perfect gift.
Reply:I liked whoever said a heartfelt letter. That would mean more to me than anything. Pour your heart out to her, tell her what she means to you. But don't stop there. Have the house clean spotless with her favorite dinner ready for her and have it by candlelit. Do the flowers or atleast the petals scattered on the table or in a hot bath waiting for her. Don't expect sex, if she wants to great but let her initiate it.
Reply:Jjust give her a long kiss, and a long hug, and take her to see a romantic movie, and dinner
Reply:Take her away for the weekend as a surprise.





If you have children....arrange for a child-free weekend %26amp; get family or close friends to baby-sit.





Give her a coupon that says you will do whatever she wants for a whole weekend....without complaining or negative comments.
Reply:What about gift voucher for the local beauticians for a massage or facial.
Reply:A gift certificate to a massage therapist or day spa.
Reply:buy her a romantic nightgown and go to a special hotel with her.
Reply:Well, a day at the spa is always good, and it would be even more special if you went with her..a couples day!
Reply:do that movie setting as in buy red roses and take the petal's off and show her a good time when she gets home or u could take her on a romantic boat ride
Reply:a puppy or para sailing
Reply:A day at the SPA!
Reply:A bed and breakfast at a romantic get away with a bottle of wine is a nice surprise.





Go out and have coffee with her and talk about her over a cup of java - perhaps buy her a mug with a saying on it she likes.





Hope this helps.
Reply:A gift certificate for a spa day


take her for a romantic getaway to a bed and breakfast
Reply:A completly heartfelt letter. Not just a paragraph but a true letter. Say the things you dont take time to say everyday and make her feel appreciated.
Reply:Let her borrow your credit card for one hour at the mall.
Reply:a nice dinner.


if you have kids then get a sitter


take her out danceing or something,


then bring her home and snuggle up with eachother.


(no kids)
Reply:One way plane ticket to some far away place?
Reply:An Ipod! Seriously, buy her an ipod and put all of her favorite cds on it to start...she can use it while she exercises, runs errands, whatever!
Reply:Treat her like the first time you met her and did what you did to win her love for you.
Reply:A gift card to her favourite store, spa or hairdressers.